Let’s talk about being an Independent woman……

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Well, all the independent women throw ya hands up at me! Now politely put them back down, lol! I’ve been independent most of my life and I have to say it’s very tiring and I’m exhausted! Saying I’m exhausted is an understatement. I’m bone tired and taking a week vacation every 6 months isn’t enough after working myself into the ground to pay all the bills just so I can say that I can is BULLSHIT!

Yes, its great to be able to pay for things myself but its tiring and its hard and after doing it for years by myself its exhausting. It would be nice to have help. What’s so wonderful about buying your own diamond ring? lol! I’m literally giving myself the side eye right now, hahaha. Yes, Its great having our own things and I stand by that. You should absolutely have your own money and be able to support yourself. However, after years of doing it on your own, its bullshit! Life is better when you have someone to share it with. When you have a partner to go through to difficult times with. To help someone take the load off.

All these independent woman quotes are nice in the beginning but after a few years, it gets old! I’m sorry I’m not here for it. Maybe I want to be an independent kept woman……….. Is that a thing? Let me know your thoughts in the comments! Thank you for reading my blog. Like, comment, subscribe!

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4 responses to “Let’s talk about being an Independent woman……”

  1. Mike Avatar
    Mike

    Kept vs Independent? Nah ladies pic one!

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    1. lifewithlane14 Avatar

      I don’t have to!

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  2. Kristen Day Avatar
    Kristen Day

    I related to this so much! This is how I feel daily? Not sure if you come from a big family, I do but guess what?? My family I’m the “black sheep” when I had my first kid at 17 that was it! Long story short I hate asking anyone for anything! Girl I want to do it myself! If I do have to ask I replay out asking them (not my family ) my boyfriend family really when I do HAVE TO ask someone that’s who it is. But I despise asking for it! There is nothing wrong with being Independent!!! But I get it girl I get so tired ! Mind is going 24/7! And girl do I read the quotes just like you mentioned!! My boyfriend is opposite if we have a microwave go out he’s asking his family before we go buy one!! I beg him to stop! Then there’s the fear of doing it alone! Can I do it on my own? Will I make it? As I stated I don’t talk to my family. Me and my boyfriend are having problems. Narcissist, at its finest! There’s days I tell him to leave, this was my house he moved in with me btw! He won’t go!! And one where I feel trapped. That’s another subject! But the fear of doing it on my own 100 % scares the crap out of me!! I’m a independent woman I’m just tired and have self doubts because I don’t have anyone really! I don’t even know if I related to your post but I def felt it on all types of levels! ❤️

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    1. lifewithlane14 Avatar

      I come from a big family! We’re very tight but I don’t like asking anyone for anything! Why? Because I saw my Momma do it all on her own. She was a single Mom that never complained and she took care of all five of us. She was a superhero. A shero! So, being an independent woman seems natural to me and admirable. However, it’s BULLSHIT! There’s nothing wrong with asking for help, having a partner, or telling someone you’re overwhelmed. I can’t run myself into the ground anymore trying to prove my independence. But I will have own things as a kept independent woman, lol 😆

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