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The things about feelings, you can’t tell someone how to feel! When you do something to someone and they tell how it made them feel, you don’t get to say, “No, I didn’t!” Why? You can’t tell someone how you made them feel. You can’t tell someone how they’re supposed to react or feel.

Years ago when my ex boyfriend and I got into an argument and he said some really hurtful things to me. Later we were having a discussion and I hold him that he made me feel useless, unappreciated, and like I didn’t matter. He looked me right in the eyes and said, “No, I didn’t!” I said you don’t get to tell me how you made me feel and he said yes I can! He was absolutely serious. Needless to say that relationship didn’t work, lol!

When someone is telling you how they feel, all you can do is listen. You can say that wasn’t your intention but that’s pretty much it. You can’t tell someone how they feel……….always remember that!

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