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It puzzles me when people try to tell others what’s a big deal and what’s not. When it comes to your own life, you can make a big deal about whatever you choose too! Why? It’s your life! Even if you don’t think somethings a big deal, you can’t tell someone else how they should react when it’s concerning their life, EVER!

Bill Maher, which i occasionally listen to, decided to speak out on the Jada Pinkett-Smith alopecia situation. He brushed it off as not being a big deal and told her to put on a wig if it’s that big of a deal! Then he said it’s not like she has leukemia!

There are so many things wrong with his statement. Number one, why are even speaking about her hair (lack their of)? Number two, how are you telling her how she should feel? Number three, why do you think you can tell her what’s a big deal and what’s not? Number four, how do you know there’s nothing else wrong with her? Number five, why did you feel like you needed to comment at all? Hasn’t everyone else already beat this into the ground……..

Basically, don’t ever tell someone how they’re supposed to feel about things regarding their life! Don’t blow off how someone feels just because you may not feel the same way. Alopecia isn’t leukemia but don’t brush it off as nothing. No one wants to lose their hair, especially women. Apparently men either, why else would they have created Rogaine, hair plugs, etc!

People not considering others feelings and thinking things aren’t a big deal is probably why teens commit suicide………

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